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詳細信息

  • 政府名稱: Quaheem愛德華茲
  • 註冊號碼: 10800-084
  • 年齡:28
  • 服務時間:6 + 歲.
  • 家鄉:百德新, NJ
  • 句子:20 歲
  • 電流充電:串謀分發, 武器, 恐嚇證人
  • 別號:OX-水花
  • 發布日期:2024
  • 監獄所屬:
  • 影響圈:Charles Taylor Jr., 大衛無人機, 約書亞Carrell的, Tewhan巴特勒
  • 機構:USP圖森
  • 現在我知道我想要什麼自己的生活, 我的家人和我的社區. 我嚴格有關重建和變革. 在紙面上, 我將永遠為下屬. 我宣讀誓詞! 但我一鼓作氣現在真正的原因, 或幾個原因: 更改, 生活水平提高和繁榮. 興起!

教父

這件作品是獻給所有的年輕父親和靈感我的的女兒Dei'Ara Zhane劉易斯.

雖然我不是Dei'Ara的親生父親, 沒有誰可以告訴我不同的靈魂. 她是我的動力. 她的母親伊夫林和我見面時,我 19 歲,她是 28. 不幸, 街道的方式,我有我自己的孩子得到. 但與Dei'Ara我內容. 她是 9 歲的時候,我走進她的生活. Before me there were a couple of male figures around but none who were willing to play the role of father. Prior to me being indicted, Evelyn and I had been a couple for close to two years. In the beginning I was well aware that she and DeiAra were a package. With the love and respect I had for her, I was more than willing. Although I had no father duty experience, having my dad around growing up gave me the tools and experiences I needed to prepare.

忍耐 + 愛 + 通訊=健康的關係

With these keys, Dei’Ara and I clicked without any major struggles. I didn’t use financial means in order to create a bond. Everything came natural. Even though I was a sucker for her pouting and whining, what my daughter and I created left me with no regrets of not producing a child of my own.

After my arrest in 2004, Dei’Ara and I kept in contact through mail, visits and phone calls. Now at 17 歲, Dei’Ara will graduate high school and prepare for college.

One thing us parents fail to realize when things do not work out: it’s about our children. We do not have to like one another or be in a relationship to raise our child together. But respect is a must. Fathers are quickly labeleddead-beatswithout any defense. I’ve witnessed this with a few of my friends. Whenever the mother prevents us from contacting and seeing our children because she hates you or we get on their nerves, or more than likely, we’re with someone else, this isn’t fair to us as fathers but also our children. It shouldn’t take a judge or courtroom for us to have understanding as parents. I believe when we bring others, especially the courts, into our business it heightens the problem. This thickens the line of division between parents.

For us fathers, we play a huge and important role in the lives of our children. We’re idolized by the little ones. I’ve witnessed this first hand with Dei’Ara. It’s the small things. 例如: whenever I’d go shopping and purchased a jersey for myself she had to have one.

Disagreement
Arguing and fighting in the presence of our children is a no-go. A shouting match won’t accomplish anything but discomfort in a household.

Favorites
也, it’s normal and alright for a child to have a favorite and be daddy’s little girl or momma’s boy. This isn’t important. But what it’s important that we do our best to make sure that our kids love both parents. Now when a child hates their mother or father we have a problem. This is unhealthy. We have to communicate. How can we saywe love our childrenbut hate the other half who played a role in bringing them into this world?

I’ll close with this:
To our fathers, do not allow financial set backs to force you into a life you’ll later regret. We all want and would like to give our children the world but visits behind glass takes a toll. Our youngins need us at home in their lives. And for those of you who didn’t have a father growing up, this alone should give you more reason to wanna be there.

最後, for those single parents who think it’s hard raising your child/children alone, just imagine the difficulty attempting to raise a child from prison.

Love your children through actions and respect their mothers.

  

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