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ಮಾದಕತೆ ಅತ್ಯಾಚಾರ

intoxication-rape

ದಿ Stanford rape case compelled me to write this post.

Imagine you’re out with a buddy. The two of you decide to hit a bar. As the night goes on, he mentions that he had a rough week and needs to unwind. “I got you,” you say as you try to get the bartender’s attention. “Two beers, two shots of tequila and keep ’em coming!” You and your friend sit at the bar laughing, drinking and making a game of trying to figure who will give in to the shots of tequila first. The night passes and your alcohol consumption creeps up on you. Looking at your watch, you realize how many hours have passed. Work tomorrow flashes across your mind like the CNN news-ticker. “I got to,” ನೀವು ಹೇಳುವ, slurring your words as you get off of your stool, nearly falling. “Whoa there,” your friend says as he steadies you in attempt to help you stand.

Hours later, you awake to the sound of a shower running somewhere off in the distance. Head spinning, you look around the dim room and think, ನಾನು ಅಲ್ಲಿ ಆಮ್? You jump up and realize you are naked. Why am I naked? Out of the fog of your intoxication comes a shocking realization. “Did we have sex? I was too drunk to know what I was doing.Shock and embarrassment slowly begin to creep into frame.

What would you do if this happened to you? How would you cope with your feelings of being violated? ಪ್ರಾಮಾಣಿಕವಾಗಿ, I can’t say, but too many young men and women of any age have lived this experience and knows what it feels like.

. . . the stains of their rape soil their souls in a way that can never be cleansed.

From what I’ve heard rape survivors say, their initial feelings include disgust, ಬಲಹೀನತೆ, betrayal, ಅವಮಾನ, ಕೋಪ, ದುಃಖಸ್ಥಿತಿ. Many even fear telling someone they’ve been victimized. Perhaps the worst feeling I’ve heard a woman express is self-doubt and self-blame. “Why did I allow myself to be raped?” “It was dumb to get so drunk.Why did I trust him?” Thoughts like these float through many victims’ minds like fingers accusing them of bringing on their own rape. ದುಃಖದಿಂದ, for many women, telling someone about their rape will bring these questions out of their heads and into their mouths.

Listening to rape victims speak of being violated, I get the sense that the stains of their rape soil their souls in a way that can never be cleansed. Feelings of powerlessness and shame seem to sink into the crevices of these women’s very being, leaving deep humiliation.

What I find strange is that you can turn on the television and see movies and TV shows where young men get women drunk in the hope of taking advantage of them. Somehow film-makers and movie watchers apparently look at intoxication rape as innocent. The reality of it all is the desperate college male feeding drinks to a young woman isn’t the boy next door. He’s the local rapist. He’s a predator out on the hunt. Getting anyone high off of drugs or drunk on alcohol in order to persuade sex is rape, not foreplay. While some may consider ittwenty-minutes of action”, sober-minded people call it intoxication rape.

. . . the desperate college male feeding drinks to a young woman isn’t the boy next door.

He’s the local rapist.

I am a male prisoner and to me intoxication rape seems to be a clear cut violation of a woman’s dignity, ಸಂಬಂಧ, right to choice, and personhood. Why do so many seem confused? Are we saying there is a cute way to rape someone? Are we saying that the girls deserved it because they got drunk? ಹಾಗಿದ್ದಲ್ಲಿ, what would you think if someone intoxication raped you, your daughter, your son?

What does it say about the world

if a convicted criminal sees how tragic intoxication rape is,

but members of the judiciary do not?

ಅದರ ಬಗ್ಗೆ ಯೋಚಿಸಿ!

  

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